How to attract women

The World of Seduction is BIG, there are thousands of little details which decide if you are getting laid. Beautiful women are desired by nearly every man, there is a lot of competition and the only way to determine which of all those men she is going to make love with are these little details. They reveal how attractive you are compared to her other options.

Below I’m going to share with you the most important details and qualities you need to attract women. If you got them right, you will be more successful in the dating game than about 90% of men out there, which will definitely get you laid. The remaining 10% are the hardest part, those are mainly things that you learn after gaining a lot of infield experience and studying women (e.g. by reading our dating advice).

How to Look Attractive
Your appearance is the first impression. Looks are not everything but for most girls they are definitely very important. I’m not talking about facial features, it’s more about the things you can influence and how you present yourself.

Have a nice body

You don’t need to look like a bodybuilder, but having some nice guns and a six-pack will definitely boost your confidence and sex-appeal for most girls. Working out does also increase your testosterone levels, which will naturally turn you into a more masculine guy. … nice butt abs

Always be well groomed

Take care of your skin, keep it healthy and get a tan if your pale. If you have a beard, trim it before going out, just like your nails and your pubic hair. Use a good smelling cologne (get female advice on this) and never forget the standard procedures like brushing your teeth, taking a shower and using antiperspirant.

Have a sense of fashion

In magazines like GQ or Fashion Blogs you can see what’s currently in style. Keep your eyes open and pay attention what kind of clothes the successful guys in the clubs are wearing. Do the same with your hairstyle, have some nice little accessories.



Attractive Body-language
The best looking guy won’t have any success if he walks around like a looser. People treat you the way you treat yourself. Walk like a winner, like someone who has his life together.

Wear a smile

Don’t overdo it like you would won the lottery, just enough to look friendly, open and carefree. People like to be around other people who are happy and raise their own state. It shows that you’re pleased and don’t need external validation.

Stand up straight with your shoulders back

This signals that you are not hiding yourself but rather showing yourself, you don’t care if people are watching you because you are confident and present.

Hold your head and eyes up

Very similar to the previous one, don’t look at the ground, you are proud of yourself and have a positive outlook on life that’s why you hold your head and eyes up. Girls have a quote that goes like “Keep Your Head Up Prince(ss) Or Else Your Crown Will Fall”.

Hold eye contact

Eye contact is the non verbal form to communicate three things: interest, affection and dominance. Of course you want to let her know that you are interested, by holding eye contact you will also see if she returns it and is interested too. If she holds it for two seconds or longer, it’s time to make your move.

Avoid these..

Putting your hands in your pockets, We do this when we’re nervous, uncomfortable or unsure of ourselves. Also avoid crossing your arms, it’s a protective posture, we do it when we’re nervous or on guard.



Attractive Characteristics
The following points are core characteristics, which appear attractive to nearly every woman, regardless of her cultural background. Most men have probably heard them already but are still not using the knowledge to become a better version of themselves. Check yourself how many of them you are fulfilling.

Sense of Humor

Marilyn Monroe once said: “If you make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.” Laughing is one of the greatest emotions you can give to a woman. She will be more thankful for it than any other material gift. Some people are born with a good sense of humor; others have the possibility to learn it later.
Confidence

Don’t confuse this with arrogance. Confidence comes from experience; it takes time. You can be confident in one area and at the same time insecure in another area. Focus on the areas that are important; in terms of seduction they are primary the environment where you meet each other (bar, club, coffee-shop) and the conversation that you have with her. Be prepared and practice until you feel comfortable.

Backbone

Make yourself aware of the things that define you and be proud of them. Women will try to judge and change you, it’s in their nature; don’t let that happen. Know your self-worth and don’t accept respect-less behavior. People, especially women will treat you the way you allow them to. Have boundaries and walk away from people who don’t value them.

Lead her

There is a huge hype about being an alpha male and how important it is to be the alpha in your group to attract women. This leads to a lot of insecurities, because you will constantly be reflecting your actions and comparing yourself to the other guys. But all you need to do is be more dominant than the woman you want to attract and lead her. Try to plan things ahead and be the one who makes the most decisions.

Be a challenge

Don’t show too much interest too early. Let her wonder from time to time if you are into her. Don’t be available all the time, don’t be online all the time. Be busy, have a life and things that are more important than a women. Try to be the one who ends the conversation. Women prefer uncontrollable men, keep her on her toes.

Playful, positive attitude

Don’t take yourself or life too seriously. This will also help you to approach women without taking a rejection personal, because it’s just a game, and you love to play it. Be present, carefree, don’t worry about what others might think and enjoy the moment.

Ambitions

Martin Luther said: “If You’ve Got Nothing Worth Dying For, You’ve Got Nothing Worth Living For”. There should be something in your live that you love to do. It could be a dream, a goal a hobby or sport, it doesn’t matter what it is, the only thing that matters is that you pursue it with passion.

Abundance

You love women and no matter how much you adore a special one, you are always aware that she isn’t he only one. You appreciate her presence, but you don’t need her, because your life is already complete without her and the next opportunity is two steps away. Always have your desires and emotions under control. This can be very hard sometimes, and it requires a lot of self-discipline.

Don’t judge her

Women who love to be sexy and live out their desires mostly have a bad reputation in our society. You don’t need to marry a women, who buried more bones than the third Reich (AV8R), but these so called sluts are doing us a favor by making many men happy. If you judge her, she will lie to you and make everything harder by trying to appear as a good girl. So appreciate her slutty side, and she will reward you by fulfilling your dreams in the bedroom.

Don’t be too picky

“Fat girls are like mopeds. There fun to ride, but you don’t want anyone to see you riding them.” Of course, you want to bang only 10s, but how do you gain the experience to satisfy her in bed? Experience should be your primary goal; it’s better to have sex with an average looking girl than to do it yourself. The best players I know have all fucked some mediocre looking girls and still do from time to time. You can’t eat caviar every day.

Deep love for women

Women are neither your enemy nor your opponent. Confident women will notice if you have honest intentions from which both of you will benefit. Your goal and mindset shouldn’t be to persuade her with techniques and trick your way into her pants. It should be having a good time together and finally, giving her pleasure.

Extra Advantages 

These are outside things, that don't need to do with you as a man. You need to assemble them after some time and they will present to you a considerable measure of advantages with regards to pulling in ladies.

Companions who are great with ladies

"You are the normal of the five individuals you invest the most energy with." (Jim Rohn). Your oblivious personality will consequently adjust their conduct. You will take in a great deal by watching them in real life, additionally by simply being around them. The themes you discuss and their demeanors will rub off on you. It will be less demanding to welcome new ladies in your gathering, if your companions know how to keep their consideration. An extraordinary wing-man is something you shouldn't disparage.

Female companions

Try not to stress over being companion zoned, it has likewise many advantages for you. I frequently companion zone young ladies which I truly like since I need to keep them in my life. Each female companion will have around 10 other female companions and some of them are likely lovely. The most ideal approach to become acquainted with a ladies is through her companions, since she won't have a bitch-shield, you are "spare" and she will be a great deal more open and agreeable. She will likewise be indeterminate in the event that you are intrigued or simply being neighborly.

Group of friends

Being somebody who is well known and knows many people is a major turn on for ladies. Particularly if there are numerous other ladies who welcome you cheerfully. It signs to her that there is something about you that individuals appear to like and she got rivalry. People are extremely affected by what others think or like. Also it's constantly incredible to be with somebody famous, on the grounds that it never get's exhausting.

Know your identity

Each one of us has a one of a kind sort, it comprises of your nationality, social foundation, religion, skin shading, the garments you wear, the music you tune in to, the daily paper you read, the things you do in your relaxation time e.t.c. Discover your identity and what you like, this is your personality, it will repulse a few ladies yet it will pull in the ones who match to you. Ladies adore men with a solid character.

Realize what you need

A piece of your personality are the ladies you venerate. I have a wide assortment of very surprising ladies that I like, however that is alright in light of the fact that 1. regardless of how diverse the ladies are, there are constantly a few things that they all have in like manner and 2. there is a center sort of ladies that turns me on the most. Discover what sort of ladies and what attributes you adore, it will spare you a considerable measure of time. When you at long last discover one who coordinates your criteria, you will esteem her a great deal more.

Have your place

Before you can draw in a lady, you initially need to discover one that you are pulled in to. Since you know her sort, it's substantially simpler to discover where those kind of young ladies are hanging out the most. For instance, you need a sweet and pleasant young lady, who is somewhat timid and invests the greater part of her energy at home? At that point a library, book shop or internet dating may be a decent place to discover her. Do you need insightful young ladies? At that point you should look at the school grounds. You need to pick up a ton of experience and engage in sexual relations with a wide range of ladies who put a considerable measure of significant worth on their appearance? At that point the club scene will be best for you. Do you cherish huge booties and young ladies with darker skin shading? Go to Clubs who play dark music. You understand.

Practice yourself

You may have perused things like, when you need to be great with young ladies, you ought to be great in all circumstances. That is horse crap. Obviously, it's exceptionally useful to have an enchanting identity and have the capacity to open a discussion regardless of what sort of circumstance, yet how about we be reasonable, it's totally enough to have one place where you are better than average. For instance: Find your most loved club, go there consistently and construct a group of friends with individuals who are likewise regularly there. It will give you social evidence, and you will feel a great deal more agreeable around your companions in a usual domain. Ladies sense this present, it's such a great amount of superior to on the off chance that you are in another condition and feel like a more unusual, locate your own particular domain.

Perception

Most folks go out and get a few beverages to end up plainly more agreeable. A little intoxicated they begin to move and would like to see a decent young lady who likes to move. It resembles shooting blindfolded. You would prefer not to circled without center and sit tight to something to happen. A genuine player watches the space to uncover all the potential that may be there this evening. This will likewise help you to see on the off chance that she has a beau and spare you from dismissal or a contention. At the point when the circumstance is great, it's the ideal opportunity for the approach.

You will dependably need to recall these things. Regardless of on the off chance that you are going out on the town or to meet new lady, rapidly read over the strong focuses and revive your mentality. I will stretch out this rundown every once in a while so you should bookmark this page.